tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190785526699837051.post2041696424117259808..comments2014-02-28T14:07:21.362-05:00Comments on Are you Mr or Mrs Right?: Pornography in MarriageShanna-Kay Britton-Edwardshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09356911690099052198noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190785526699837051.post-54980001667911840992012-04-23T16:11:21.538-05:002012-04-23T16:11:21.538-05:00Amem Tash!!! totally agree, we should just hold ha...Amem Tash!!! totally agree, we should just hold hands and write a book together on this issue.Shanna-Kay Britton-Edwardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09356911690099052198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190785526699837051.post-31817378731142500192012-04-23T15:47:00.316-05:002012-04-23T15:47:00.316-05:00Latz your comment above stated that " a man w...Latz your comment above stated that " a man watching a porn video is not usually fantasizing about the woman" so what or who does he fantasize about you? <br />I believe in sex-books that teach or show you ways to enhance your intimate relationship, but for a spouse to actually sit and watch porn, its breaking out of that exclusivity, it's like inviting your neighbour to your marriage bed while you both are in it. the person caught in the act so to speak of pornography is taking on a dual personality outside of his/her marriage. usual abusers of pornography doesn't want their spouse to find out and thus its done in secret. <br />Pornography lives on fantasy and sometimes when these fantasies cannot be realized for that spouse he/she goes outside of marriage to fulfill them.Pornography does break up the intimacy of a marriage. So sex scenes are in a lot of movies nowadays what do you do? I respect my husband's view of the content in movies to abstain from, so movies with short or small scenes of sex ok, but steamy prolonged sex scenes are mini porn scenes and these draw your mind away from your spouse into fantasy world "oh i wish that was my body his hands roaming over.." etc. <br />So what do we do? Live out your own fantasies with your spouse by communicating what you want and enjoy the beauty of sex without "alien" interference.tashharrisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03477240162405812513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190785526699837051.post-39282805107315298302012-04-23T13:44:36.951-05:002012-04-23T13:44:36.951-05:00If it's "teaching" sex in my opinion...If it's "teaching" sex in my opinion that's totally different. Both of us will be learning something to enhance our sex life. But, How does just watching regular "non teaching" pornographic material help? <br /><br />Like drugs once you try it, it's easy to abuse it.<br /><br />We saw the Notebook... enjoyed the story line very much. However, even though we did I still believe we should be careful about what we watch.Shanna-Kay Britton-Edwardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09356911690099052198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190785526699837051.post-40400188710641231082012-04-23T13:30:17.131-05:002012-04-23T13:30:17.131-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Shanna-Kay Britton-Edwardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09356911690099052198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190785526699837051.post-57058558846965980132012-04-23T13:25:30.001-05:002012-04-23T13:25:30.001-05:00A man watching a porn video is not usually fantasi...A man watching a porn video is not usually fantasizing about having sex with the woman in the video. It is RARELY about that! There are movies with HOT sex scenes, do you suggest avoiding those too? (The notebook have a BADDDDD sex scene). You would a feel offended if u husband watch Noah and Hallie have sex on The Notebook?Latzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07484815921804685722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190785526699837051.post-433893827006618502012-04-23T13:17:58.028-05:002012-04-23T13:17:58.028-05:00Really Shanna? Do you view Karma Sutra and other b...Really Shanna? Do you view Karma Sutra and other books and videos geared at "teaching sex" as porn? They fall under the same category. <br /><br />Porn has it's place. It's the abuse of porn that one should worry about.Latzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07484815921804685722noreply@blogger.com