I’m not nosy but, I have overheard some pretty interesting
conversations from singles who are actively seeking a partner. I was there; I had my list of criteria that I
wanted my potential husband to meet. Somewhere along this journey a light bulb
went off! “What do I bring to the table?”
It Starts With Me!
We are so caught up in adding to the “list of things we look
for in a bf/gf,” that we forget that our potential mates have their own list
too. I recommend you get your values, attitude and character in line with the
list you look for in a potential mate. Chances are there is someone out there
with a similar list, look for you!
Learn to Enjoy Your
Own Company
I learnt this valuable lesson from a girlfriend who enjoys
her own company. If she wants to go rock climbing, she makes the necessary
arrangements and go. No need to call up a friend to accompany her. She can be
bad all by herself. This is a part of character building, learning to make
yourself happy. Once you master this, you lessen desperation for a partner.
Ultimately giving you a clearer head to choose a partner wisely, not jumping
into something too quickly because you are desperate.
You don’t Need a
Partner to Complete You
I am not a fan of referring to your partner as “your other
half,” or making statements such as “you complete me.” You are complete on your
own! If you take this concept of being incomplete without a partner; in your
singleness you will be lonely, desperate, feeling empty, thinking your life is
lacking something gravely important. Once you realize there is no truth to
this, watch how your confidence blossoms. You’ll walk around chest high and a
noticeable pep in your step. Should I
state how much more attractive you’ll be with a boost in confidence?
Once you come to terms that a healthy relationship starts
with me; and start working on you first, your whole outlook on dating will
change for the better. You’ll enjoy your singleness more, and if you’re in a
relationship, when you start working on you, your relationship will improve.
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