Bedroom
Drama
To have a healthy marriage, sex and lots of it should be
a top priority. Boring sex is a no, no! Explore different positions (buy a Kama
Sutra book or Google search). To the husbands, satisfy a woman’s emotional
needs and she will be more motivated to make time for more sex. To the wives,
don’t withhold sex from your husband as a “punishment,” instead use it to make
up sooner. Keep things fresh and romance
novel like J be very
clear and open about your preferences and expectations sexually. What are your
views regarding infidelity? Of course it doesn’t stop here; there is a whole
lot more on this topic to explore.
Balance
When I make reference to balance I mean getting rid of
power struggle, don’t try to control your partner. I also mean meeting each
other’s needs. Don’t expect to always get, and never give.
Give your partner room to fulfill their dreams and goals,
offer guidance if you can, leave out negative judgment. While your partner is
pursuing their own interest, go after yours as well. You don’t want to give up
all your dreams and goals to help your partner fulfill his/her own, as it’s
highly likely that you will have regrets in the future, when you realize you
have not accomplished anything personally.
Bonding
The success of marriages
depends heavily on bonding. A huge mistake couples make is assuming their bond
will last because of their love for each other. Without hard work, this
connection will be lost! Be intentional in finding strategies to strengthen your
union.
So, slow it down! Take your
time in spending quality time together. Date nights once a week; no interruptions
from children, just you and your partner alone. Hold hands, hug and kiss
frequently, looking into each other’s eye when you talk, find hobbies/actives
to do together; so as to create memorable memories.
Keep searching for ways to strengthen
your marriage together. Improving in the areas on these “B’s will sure to help
in sustaining a strong marriage.
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