It might seem like a very small point to many, but when you’re trying to get your ex back it’s really crucial. We need to remember that though we might have some conscious choices attraction and love is not one of them. To say differently, in order to connect romantically with someone the emotional connection has to be genuine. But, the attraction or connection is found on many different levels.
Without this connection it is going to be close to impossible to convince your ex you should be back in a relationship. It does happen, but typically it’s not sincere so it won’t work out. The other party often agrees to get back together because he or she has a guilty conscience. Don’t do this! You are only fooling yourself, getting back together is not your road to happiness.
You are going to have to do too much to get your ex back, it easier if a genuine attraction is created. But if it wasn’t there to begin with just forget about trying. If your master plan is to beg get rid of that idea also. Not worth it, the relationship will end pretty soon after anyways.
Don’t let your emotional side take control. It is this struggle you are having with your emotions that’s causing you to feel so anxious about getting your ex back. Get up off your Knees and stop begging! Accept what your ex-partner decides to do. Let him or her go, your ex will come back freely if there was a genuine connection.
Don’t get too worked up over your broken relationship, a lot of persons are out there going through this emotional journey. Like many before them and those that will after, getting over your ex is extremely possible.